Thomas “T.R.” Ocheltree San Francisco obituary – It is with profound sadness that we mourn the sudden and tragic passing of Thomas “T.R.” Ocheltree, Paula Truong, and their two young children, who were found deceased in their family home on Monterey Boulevard on Wednesday, October 8, 2025.
T.R. and Paula were a devoted couple who made their home in the Westwood Highlands neighborhood, where they were known by neighbors as a kind, quiet family deeply committed to one another and their community. The couple purchased their home in 2014 and were often seen walking with their children, whose ages were believed to be between 8 and 12 years old.
Their children, whose bright spirits and laughter brought life to the tree-lined block, were cherished deeply by all who knew them. They leave behind a stunned and grieving neighborhood, friends, and extended family who are struggling to comprehend the heartbreaking loss.
The circumstances surrounding their deaths remain under investigation by the San Francisco Police Department. While many questions remain unanswered, the memory of this family and the love they shared endures.
Details on memorial services will be shared by the family when available.
May their memories be a blessing.